Dear Hard-Working Leader, Parent, Co-Teacher, and/or Biz Owner Striving for Excellence (and soon-to-be Disruptor),
Now that 2020 is over, are you ready to disrupt the old paradigm of White Supremacy Culture and become the leader in your own life?
Are you tired of feeling overwhelmed, overworked?
At the same time, you want to do The Work.
Are you trying your best to get things done? Trying to keep the kids fed, make sure they’re still learning while earning money for yourself and your family?
Do you find yourself avoiding conflict, at work and at home, choosing to be nice above all else? Because let’s be honest, everyone is doing the best they can.
Do you find yourself striving for your dreams, trying to stay healthy and well (especially in the intersecting pandemics of COVID-19, Anti-Black Racism, & Climate Change)? Yet the struggle with perfectionism and to be nice above all else (all the time!) is real.
Do you find yourself having trouble finishing what you start? Even the things you say you want to do?
Are you afraid to make mistakes, not wanting to be a failure, so you find yourself battling procrastination and/or analysis paralysis?
Whether it’s that work project you said you’d finish by the deadline for your client or manager, or that chapter of your novel you’re attempting to revise, or that assignment that needs uploading for your kid, or even choosing healthier foods to eat, it’s easier to take the opposite route to distract, numb, and avoid—falling further and further into a spiral of shame and guilt.
Don’t you agree that it’s time for us to claim a new way?
For melanated-womxn…
- Are you looking for a way to call in your white friends?
- Are you tired after the never-ending emotional labor involved?
- Are you needing to claim rest?
- Are you looking to unravel the internalized ways White Supremacy Culture has shown up in your life in an honest and deliberate way?
For white womxn…
- Do you feel like you’ve become stagnant in your anti-racism work?
- Do you still have that pile of books that you bought back in June 2020 yet haven’t read?
- Do you struggle with feeling like you aren’t doing enough? Aren’t doing it right?
Diverse Womxn to Unlearn White Supremacy Culture
For ALL womxn…
- How does perfectionism, niceness above all else, and performative anti-racism show up in your own work and personal life?
- What if I were to tell you that each one of these practices is a characteristic of White Supremacy Culture?
- And that by learning how to disrupt these practices, such as Perfectionism, you are starting the process of disrupting White Dominant Culture?
It’s time for all of us womxn to stop feeling fried at the end of the day and become the leaders in our own lives. Do you feel me?
? Payment Plans ?
Option 1: Access for 1 (3 payments)
Option 2: All-Access + 1 (5 payments)
Wanna know more?
Read on…
My Personal Story
Like you, I used to be unaware of the White Supremacist culture we all swim in.
Ever since the thrill of my first all A’s report card, I’ve struggled with perfectionism. From the desire for A+ to being the model minority, perfectionism and pleasing others became the norm. As I began to acknowledge it’s sometimes crippling affect as a young professional, I resolved to the idea that “done is better than perfect” while still battling high expectations of only one right way.
Then in January 2017, my world was shaken when I was introduced to the practices of White Supremacy Culture, and I began to see each practice as a symptom of a larger systemic problem.
And for the first time in my life, I could see how perfectionism, niceness above all else, and performative anti-racism led me to the beliefs that…
- “Making a mistake” is the same as “BEING a mistake.”
- Being nice and avoiding conflict keeps folx comfortable yet neglects my ability to feel the full range of my feelings.
- Saying one is “woke” by simply reading the latest books on race, even claiming to be anti-racist is just the first step to doing the work.
Your Facilitator
Now as a CEO & Principal Intentional Justice™ Strategist of Mama J Love Consulting, I am a Black Queer mamapreneur and joint caretaker for my 6-year-old daughter, parenting across two households and racial difference. I’ve made it my mission to disrupt and dismantle White Supremacy Culture, and its practices with bite-sized deliberate actions every damn day! This is Intentional Justice™ rooted in love and healing in the vortex of Liberatory, trauma-informed, anti-racism work..
? I invite you to learn how you can disrupt perfectionism, niceness above all else, and performative anti-racism and finally be the sovereign Y(OUR) sovereign self!
? Payment Plans ?
Option 1: Access for 1 (3 payments)
Option 2: All-Access + 1 (5 payments)
Join the Disruptor Masterclass & Accountability 6-Month Program ✊?✊?✊?✊?✊?
Program Schedule (February – July 2021)
| Masterclass Topics | Masterclass Dates | Accountability Dates |
| F*ck Perfectionism | Sun, 2/14 1-3 pm PST | Sun, 3/15 1-3 pm PST |
| Niceness Above All Else | Sun, 4/11 1-3pm PST | Sun, 5/16 1-3 pm PST |
| Performative Anti-Racism | Sun, 6/13 1-3pm PST | Sun, 7/18 1-3 pm PST |
During our 6-month journey, we’ll explore…
- The origins of perfectionism: Where does it come from? What’s its connection to perpetuating White Supremacy? How can we unravel its grip?
- The root of niceness: Where does it show up? What role does it play in silencing certain voices? How can we allow our rage and anger to fuel our actions?
- The impact of performative anti-racism: What does it look like? Why it’s time to expand from ally to co-conspirator? How to be accountable?
Plus, you will experience…
- Time and space to pause and reflect on the 3 Commitments to Disrupting White Supremacy Culture
- Love and accountability from Mama J, as well as a community of fellow Disruptors
- A brave space anchored in the Four Agreements — Don’t Make Assumptions, Be Impeccable with Your Word, Don’t Take Things Personally & Always Do Your Best — to explore the water we all swim
Features of the 6-Month Program
- A monthly session from 1-3pm PST on the 3rd Sunday alternating between a masterclass and then followed by an accountability session
- Each Masterclass will be recorded and shared; whereas, the accountability sessions will only be recorded for Mama J to support the intentions you set during each session.
- Meditative audio affirmations
- Personal inquiry prompts
- Articles and video resources to go deeper with your unlearning
- An online community during the 6 months (still TBD due to finalizing a non-Facebook option)
? Payment Plans ?
Option 1: Access for 1 (3 payments)
Option 2: All-Access + 1 (5 payments)
Testimonials
I appreciate how Jillian always presents/leads PD with her heart and personal experience. It makes what we’re talking about more relatable and makes you want to open up and be more vulnerable.
Staff Member & “Global Majority” Racial Affinity Facilitator
Lighthouse Community Public Schools
I appreciate you and your willingness to listen, carry, and problem-solve while being such a strong a thought partner.
Tina Enagbare, SPHR
Vice President, Talent & Equity
Peer Health Exchange, Inc.
As a result of my work with Mama J, my role and responsibility as a change agent have been illuminated. This has lead to my own personal daily action of trying to be an agent of change.
Maureen Huffer
Workshop participant for Intersectionality: Beyond the Buzz
? Payment Plans ?
Option 1: Access for 1 (3 payments)
Option 2: All-Access + 1 (5 payments)
Features of the 6-Month Program
- A monthly session from 1-3pm PST on the 3rd Sunday alternating between a masterclass and then followed by an accountability session
- Each Masterclass will be recorded and shared; whereas, the accountability sessions will only be recorded for Mama J to support the intentions you set during each session.
- Meditative audio affirmations
- Personal inquiry prompts
- Articles and video resources to go deeper with your unlearning
- Online community during the 6 months (still TBD due to finalizing a non-Facebook option)
? Payment Plans ?
What are YOU waiting for?
F*ck Perfectionism, Niceness Above All Else & Performative Anti-Racism and break free by signing up below.
Because when you break free from its chains, you disrupt White Supremacy Culture to experience sovereignty and limitless Liberation! ?
In lovelution…
? Payment Plans ?
Option 1: Access for 1 (3 payments)
Option 2: All-Access + 1 (5 payments)
FAQs
When does the program start and finish?
The program starts on Sunday, February 14, 2021 and goes until Sunday, July 18, 2021.
How long do I have access to the course?
You can download the recordings and course materials until the end of August 2021.
What does the Intentional Justice™ Session with Mama J include?
A 50-minute 1-on-1 Zoom in which we will co-create an Intentional Justice™ plan for you to take bite-sized and deliberate action to being a Disruptor in your life!
How will my +1 get access?
When your payment is complete, there will be a form for you to complete to provide the name and email address for your +1. We’ll take it from there. However, we do recommend reaching out to let your +1 to expect an email from Mama J Love Consulting as a participant in the Disruptor 6-Month Program.
How can my +1 (e.g. friend, partner, colleague, etc.) benefit from joining?
Imagine being able to have an accountability partner you already know, who is committed to doing the work alongside you. As such, the benefit is you are not alone to do this work. Or better yet, it will aid in moving the work of diversity, equity, and inclusion forward that you’re doing with friends, colleagues, or your partner. As the saying goes, there’s no I in team.
What do I need to join?
An open mind and heart with a willingness to make mistakes and grow from them. In addition, you’ll need a mobile device, tablet, or computer to access Zoom and our online community.
What if I am unhappy with the program?
If you are not satisfied with the program after the first session, you are more than welcome to gift the program to a friend or loved one. There are no refunds and I cannot, and will not make exceptions to this boundary. Please purchase mindfully. Before you purchase, take a deep breath. Listen to your inner knowing to make sure it FEELS aligned for your purpose, your schedule, and your financial situation.
? Payment Plans ?
Option 1: Access for 1 (3 payments)
Option 2: All-Access + 1 (5 payments)
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